WOW! i gotta say i didnt expect this huge of a response, thanks everyone... i couldn;t reply to everyone, and the massive quoting i want to insert here is huge cause everyone really gave some great info and shared like and stuff

to those i didnt reply to (i made a list and checked it twice)
Sassypants, SeptMorn, Pinksoil, Sky, Cyrano, HeyJoe, et al.... thanks very much for helping

I kinda summarized everybodys input... feel free to correct me if i mixed it up...

Humor brings up the topic of laughter... many people believe laughter is good medicine...

Humor was described as healthy and unhealthy...

Humor has physical, emotional, psychological benefits...

Humor can be triggering

Humor exposes

Humor has power

im getting overwhelmed again.....

Mystry, for real, I think you're pretty cool... apology totally accepted... I like your work... a lot ... (friendly smile)