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drummergrl said:
All my friends perform "oral" sex on their guys, and they advised me to do so to see if that would help.

I DON'T WANT TO HELP HIM THAT MUCH!!!
I couldn't do that as I think that's the most disgusting thing I've ever seen.

And as a victim of sexual assault I would never even consider it.

I might like being the victim, walk in my shoes if you think it's so easy to get over!!! It leaves a scar on you no one or no thing can erase.
In my own famous words: " Innocense once was a virtue, now it's a Crime".

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((( hugs ))) - Please know that I understand how sexual abuse can effect a person later in life when they decide to become sexual with another...... and I know all about how some scars may never fully heal *sad*
I lived thru the hell and I suffered thru the rejection of sex by self - but now I am enjoying the benefits of having a caring husband that cared enough to listen and to support me until I got to the point where I was comfortable with him sexually.

Food for Thought (wife to wife)

Have you thought about pleasuring him manually with your hand and some motion lotion? - or can you ever image using some kind of sex toy on him that helps with his hardness factor?