Kiya, I don't believe we're all gay or straight. It's a matter of degrees and what would make you happiest.
Would it bother you to find you have some homosexual tendencies? If not, you may find it's worth exploring, either with her or someone else. If the idea does bother you or if you're truly happy not dating, then ignore it. It doesn't sound like it's something that's caused difficulty in you life so it would be easy enough to put it out of your mind.
I myself am bisexual. Maybe by birth or maybe because of my childhood experiences, so I can't relate to the surprise but I do understand the urge. Urges, however, still leaves you with choice. Just be true to yourself.
Cyran0
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