I Had a purely sexual relationship with a guy for almost 3 years on and off. He was constantly texting me, asking when he could see me, telling me I am gorgeous, etc. then it gradually stopped and got to the point where he would text me things like "you must be out with your new boyfriend right now", "you must be getting laid right now". so I would respond to him with "you must be just finished having sex now" (this was normal for us to text each other crazy stuff like this). He would ALWAYS RESPOND to my texts and now he wasn't responding at all! It was as if I did not exist and he wasn't getting my texts! Then all contact just stopped. So for months I have not heard from him or texted him. I assumed he found someone else. It hurt but I tried to move on.

Then this week he just texted me saying "you there" And he also send an email the same day saying "how are things with you?" (the weird thing is he never sent texts to me like this. it was ALWAYS hey beautiful, when can I see you, I need you, etc. It was never "how are you doing" So I just responded with a "hello" and I got no response from him! Then a week later I send a partially nude picture as a test to see what he would do. And he never responded! so I take that as he is not interested. But why does he text in the first place??

And no I do not want this guy for anything long term. I know he is a liar, cheater, etc. I just miss the meetings between us. Part of me wants to see him and another part doesn't. I know I will get bashed for this but he is also married.

All I want to know is what is he doing??