Your t IS WRONG! I am shocked a t would say this. Molestaion is something we never forget. It happend to me 60 years ago. you may want to write a letter to your uncle of "restorative justice"--that says...this is what you did; this is how it made me feel. You can give it to him, or keep it. Being molested changes your life.....He is ignorant (t); JUST because you don't want to tell anyone doesn't mean it wasn't a big deal! Most people who are molested don't tell anyone for many reasons. If you decide to stay with the t I would tell him he is wrong, and his training should have given him the tools to understand what being molested does to a person. Shame on him!

Molesters count on the silence of the victim (hate that word).....If nothing else, I would confront your uncle (I think restorative justice....is empowering) to let him know you know what he did; sadly abusers usually don't stop at just one person.