I am curious how many are married with a bpd diagnoses. In 2010 our marriage had an explosion. I've not been ok since. My husband has had severe trauma as a child also and is diagnosed with depression anxiety and OCD. I'm wondering if we can ever be a loving couple again. With me getting this diagnoses. I'm concerned. He doesn't apologize much. I do to much. I own the diagnoses. Doesn't make it easier. Not at all.