I know my "love" for T is not truly love... It is a transference pattern I need to break, because I "loved" ex T too. I like them, I respect them, I developed attachment.

T believes in nurturance and the concept of life as a journey. I'm very curious about her because I'm certain my "love" for her is mostly idealised projections and that I don't really know what her values and beliefs are. I would like to know, because I hope learning to see her as more of a regular human would break the "love" I feel for her. Break the attachment, break the dependency.