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Originally Posted by Breadfish
I'm replying as someone who identifies as asexual and has never been in a romantic relationship, so please forgive me if I'm way off or asking things that are obvious.
You have a wife but you don't have sex with her. Is it possible to either - have sex with your wife, - ask permission to have a mistress or - have an open relationship (meaning you are both allowed to sleep with other people)?
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I have been struggling with a weight issue over my wife. She has lost the weight 2x in our entire 20yrs and while it doesn't take away the thoughts or desires, it definitely helps! I've expressed to my wife that it is VERY important that she loses the weight so that I can find her attractive (physically) again. However, keep in mind, after 20yrs, the mind tends to want something new.