No. 1 - stayed calm. Cheerfully said, "I've obviously done something to piss you off, do you want to talk about it?"

No. 2 - I never really got upset with her in person. But based on her recent letter, she'd run and hide somewhere till it blew over.

No. 3 - calm and chilled out. Sometimes it was obvious that she had no clue what she had done. And like 2, she knows I am upset with her now, but has chosen not to communicate at all.

DBC - Was usually rational. The time I really got upset with her, though, in our last session, and was doing everything from crying to throwing a stuffed animal across the room (an accident, believe it or not), she just froze up. (I would prefer crying to freezing up, btw, because it's at least a reaction I can respond to if I choose.) She also flinched at the stuffed animal.

CW - I may find out this afternoon. Stay tuned!