This is pretty much my T. I have shared profanity rants that I wrote up regarding the upsetting event well after I had gotten past my mad. I do not talk about my anger, hurt, being mad when I am still feeling those things, so usually it is a calmish discussion. She does a great job of keeping it about me which I find refreshing. She has apologized some times and not other times. She has modified things most the time and clarified boundaries on a few times.