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Old Apr 24, 2017, 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted by junkDNA View Post
i get the sense he has pulled away from one on one therapy with you
Thats a good point. If LT is reenacting the scenario of her dad, with MC, its not the reenactment of a failed scenario but now with a "magically delicious" ending that heals.

Its building a NEW relationship (like with T) that never goes down that reenactment path to begin with. My t likes to say, "when you come to a fork in the road, take it!" (He loves Yogi Berra. But now i get why he likes this saying of his!)

But its those little forks that BUILD a DIFFERENT relationship AWAY from the usual reenactment path. Once youre on the reenactment path, theres no resolution - theres only walking away.
Thanks for this!
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