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Old Apr 24, 2017, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by unaluna View Post
Thats a good point. If LT is reenacting the scenario of her dad, with MC, its not the reenactment of a failed scenario but now with a "magically delicious" ending that heals.

Its building a NEW relationship (like with T) that never goes down that reenactment path to begin with. My t likes to say, "when you come to a fork in the road, take it!" (He loves Yogi Berra. But now i get why he likes this saying of his!)

But its those little forks that BUILD a DIFFERENT relationship AWAY from the usual reenactment path. Once youre on the reenactment path, theres no resolution - theres only walking away.
This is the philosophy I have embraced and so far T has gone with it too within her boundaries that is.
Thanks for this!
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