I have been trying to find a support group, but I have had no luck except for some that want 30-50 dollars a session...that I cannot afford at the moment. And the lawyers say that I can't do anything until he is gone. And that since he is not a tenant, I cannot evict him. The stress of being in the house with him is too much. Really I can't find anyone in this situation, unmarried, with kids, letting him live with me all these years. Many people say that we are common law married. In the state I live in, he can come after me. And he probably will. If he supposedly has no money now...how is he going to pay for rent?