I think you need to clearly define what is meant by abandonment. I have seen a variety of definitions of abandonment here on pc. I was terribly hurt by a t who decided to retire. It was awful. I'm over it now, but it was bad for about a year. He didn't think he was abandoning me, I thought he had said that he would be in practice for the 7 years that he told me therapy would probably take. So yeah, find out what your t means by abandonment.