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Old Apr 24, 2017, 09:32 PM
laxer12 laxer12 is offline
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Before I moved to a new state, my T told me that she wouldn't abandon me but that is kind of a different context. She meant it in the sense that I could call her if I needed to talk to her after I moved. We had established that we would do phone sessions for the first month and a half after I moved if I thought it would be helpful. I then asked her what she would do if I called her say, 3 months, after I moved and that's when she said she wouldn't abandon me.

It's been 10 months since I've moved and although I haven't talked her for about 8 months, I feel confident that she would pick up the phone if I called.

I agree with everyone else though, you need to define abandonment for you. After I moved I saw another T who ended up moving to a new state 1.5 months after I saw her. You could say that she abandoned me but I also feel like she would have talked to me if I had called after she moved.