Maybe this is too strong a word....but there have been a few times in therapy where I've been gaslighted with sessions. Correct terminology? For example, just this week, I see T for the last time in her current office on Wednesday. I also saw her yesterday, to which she told me "see you tomorrow!" I said no, Wednesday. She said "that's strange, I have you down for tomorrow." I said that is NOT what was scheduled....but she never admitted to changing it around on me. Like I am to believe my google calendar, AND my paper calendar, and my memory are all wrong? I remember the conversation, and I also remember her saying just last week that I would be her last client in that office ever, with my Wednesday session.

So, I'm supposed to see her again today. I plan on canceling. I hadn't planned for two back to back sessions, and just not happy that things just got switched around without asking me, and then as if making me feel crazy that it wasn't the way I knew it was???