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I guess, having doubt about this relationship, makes me feel worse when I think of my ex in a happy one.
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Maybe a little jealousy that he is now happy without you & maybe you are seeing that he can be the person he wasn't able to be with you:
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He lacks emotion and is not at all thoughtful, romantic, passionate, warm... Keeps his feelings bottled up.
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I know the issues I ended up leaving my H for were things that were there with him way before the wedding. Just wasnt as "in my face" obvious then as it was later.
I felt no connection to him & thought the problem was me all those years until I left & found out that I am the one capable of connecting & he is the one who isn't. Maybe seeing him be with someone else whst he never was with you is something that is creating that uneasy feeling in you since you arent seeming to truly connect with anyone & now he is? Kind of a hurt & jealous put together maybe?....that you arent the one experiencing the emotions yiu want to feel. (Just a thought).
How to move on? Some things we just have to let go of, make our choices & live with the consequences or re-evaluate those choices. It all takes a goid analysis & mindfulnessof our own lives.