After reading your other thread about her generally shytti behavior and her cheating on you more than once, I stand by my original statement.

I would take it with offence.

Even if she has issues (some of us have more issues than GQ magazine) doesn't give us a free pass at treating other badly and intentionally making other people feel like shyt.

I think an honest talk and a plan for the way forward (whether that be committing to better more open and honest communication or professional intervention is long overdue.