I almost feel the opposite.
My T gives me unconditional love but certainly doesnt give me what i want or feel like i need all the time. With mu mother being abusive i never got the experience as a very small child of differentiating between small rejections ( i can't read you a story right now)where the essential love relationship remains and BIG rejection ( i wish i had aborted you, etc) where the relationship is fundamentally broken.
To me even a small rejection used to feel like a threat to the entire relationship. Now i have had the experience with my T of being rejected in many small ways while hsving the core of the relationship remain intact.

Now i deal much better with small rejections and since im not so hyper sensitive my relationships have less conflict and i am able to receive more of the love around me even when its imperfect.