You say you always want to get in the head of a guy.

It sounds like you want to be the one that nobody can forget or get over.

While that sounds romantic in movies, it isn't so much in real life.

I would imagine you're in his head. He keeps creeping back into your life after being gone for a while, so you're in his head all right. Is that a healthy place to be? Probably not. Look at his track record.

This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. Is that what you want? Is your goal to have someone you see every now and then, or do you want a serious, longterm relationship? Figure out what you want. Then don't let a player distract you from it. He's a player. He isn't longterm material, and people who play games like this one actually do damage to a person's heart.

Who wants that?