Last year, I married the man that I loved for 10 years. Right after marriage, I had to move to a different state for a few months for work. My husband has the flexbility of working from home. So he can move pretty much anywhere I go. Before marriage, he used to tell me that we would move based on where I get job because all we ever wanted is to stay together. When it was time for me to go off to another state, he told me that he will live with his parents every other month, since they can't move with us; which means that he will live with me one month and next whole month he will live with his parents. I really got surprised and upset after hearing this. After that, when I lived out of state for 2 and a half months for work, he left me for 3 weeks to live with his parents. After my work was done, we came back to his parents house and has been living there since. I was very saddened by this. Does this make me a bad person? Does this mean I am jealous of husband's parents? When I told him that he left me to live with his parents. He got really upset and he thinks that I hate his parents. He told me that he wants to be there whenever his parents need him, and that's why he left. He says that he needs to go back home to keep his parents happy. But I still cannot let this go. It is so bad that I don't care about my career anymore because I don't want to give him a chance to choose to live between me and his parents. Am I wrong to think any of this, as his wife? What should I do when I have to leave again for work? If someone is experiencing something similar, please share your ideas. Thanks.