i used to swallow because i thought thats what guys wanted. then i was brave enough to ask my boyfriend and he said it didnt matter if i spit or not. he said the biggest deal is that he doesnt have to finish himself off. i dont ask for them to pull away but after a while that bitter snotty kinda stuff i gross and it makes me gag trying to swallow it lol. so i asked if he cared if i just went to the bathroom and spit it out and he said he doesnt care. he said he never really understood why guys thought that swallowing was hot. cause he makes me brush my teeth lol