@Prefabsprout - Well she did say she would like to hang with friends more but she has no time. Maybe my idea of busy is different then other peoples? or I keep reading the wrong info about busy people? I dunno. Maybe it's that i'm never busy and wish I could hang with people instead of sitting here at my PC all day when i'm not at work? I don't get life or the things that happen in it, it's confusing. She did mention she might be quitting her job soon, but would that give her more time? or would she fill the time with other things? She did say she rather hang around a few friends and do something active then sit at a bar, and don't think she's a fan of 1 on 1's like I am.

@Rose76 - Probably my behaviour, but I never got told about boundaries from her except to stop being like this and just accept what happens. She told me she never used to have friends, now she does. She told me back in Sept we are friends for life but that was in Sept, and friends for life is impossible although she has a best friend from elementary school she recently hung out with, not spoke in a few years. I've changed from back then. She told me to text or call her anytime I want more then once over the past few months, I asked a few months ago if I could call her more (I called her once a month, I felt anything more and she will be annoyed and that i'm bugging her, not called her since March 19) and said yes I can, might not get back to me right away as she's out alot but when she has time she will call me back. She hates when I disappear, can tell by how she acts and her voice but i'll disappear for now. I got things I need to occupy my time with. I've also told her if she needs help financially i'm always here to help her, like she does not wanna go to school as she will be in debt and me and her mom offered to help her out. I always help my buddies or friends with money even though I don't make a whole lot.

Anyway i'm taking a break from this thread, i'll post back if something happens.

edit- Oh and thanks everyone!