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Old Apr 25, 2017, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by scaredandconfused View Post
I hear you, it is absolutely about confidence. I'm at a normal weight and look objectively decent in a bikini, but I feel so awful in one (really low self-confidence). I'm looking to tone up as well, particularly a small bit of belly fat that I'm not fond of.
My mom and I talked about this. When she had the body for it she never wore bikinis because she was self-concious. When I was 110 pounds I was still very self-conscious but wore them because I had the body for it.