I am traveling with boyfriend and his family to visit his brother at his home.
The house is very big and we are 6 adults. I am a very clean person and like to help and have everything clean and organized.
The problem is that I am the one one cleaning the mess of everyday.
I clean all dishes, pan and also floors. They keep cooking and living all dishes, pots and pans for me to clean.
My bf and his parents wake up around 5 am, but I don't like waking up before 6:30 am. I do all my things in the room and go down for breakfast around 7:30 am, and when I get there I see dirty coffee cups and all breakfast food on the counter waiting for me. I left all clean the night before and now have to clean everything again. I even made a test the other day and didn't clean the breakfast stuff, and when it was 3 pm there were so many dirty dishes that all counters were full of them.
This morning I had an argument with bf because he offered to make me coffee and he took a dirty cup to use because all were dirty. I'm the only person here cleaning and he gives me a dirty cup????
What should I do? Should I pack my stuff and leave?
I tried to discuss this with him and he got very upset saying that I should clean as his parents are old to help and I am the only woman on the group. His brother is the host, so the doesn't clean, his boyfriend is too lazy, and my boyfriend....well he's too macho I guess.