Someone that I have been friends with for the past 9 or 10 years,who calls me her "best friend" will be getting married this summer and did not ask me to be in the wedding.It hurts my feelings,especially when she calls to tell me all about her wedding plans(maybe I should say calls to brag instead of calls to tell me because that's how it seems).The last time she called she was telling me that someone that was supposed to be in it has declined.I was expecting her to ask me to because why else would she be telling me that?But no,she didn't.

She met the guy online and then he traveled across many states to meet her a few months ago and never left,now they're getting married.I haven't even met him nor has she offered for me to.She just tells me how great,wonderful and rich he is and how happy she is and all the plans they have for the future.She told me they already bought a house,moved in and brags about all the remodeling plans they have,how nice the house is.I haven't been invited over to see the house either.

She still calls weekly,still calls me her best friend yet all I am now really is a phone friend.I am seriously considering not attending the wedding and letting her tell me all about it on the phone if she wants.How am I her "best friend" if she doesn't even want me to meet the man she's marrying?Is she expecting me to show up at the wedding and then be introduced?Isn't that strange?She knows how upset I was to meet my mothers new husband about 7 years ago after they were married so I just don't understand any of this.

No,I won't talk to her about any of this if that's what anyone is going to suggest.I won't humiliate myself that way,won't tell her she has hurt me,remind her she calls me her best friend yet doesn't act like it.(Am I the only one that thinks this is strange?)We were talking on the phone recently and he asked who she was talking to and she told him my name,told him I was her best friend,you would assume he would want to meet me or she would want me to meet him.WTH is going on?If she doesn't want to be friends,if I'm not really her best friend,then fine,I can deal with that,but why call me and say we're best friends like she does?

I think I'm just going to start ignoring her calls and I think I will skip the wedding.Screw her,right?