I'd feel like it was baiting for an argument. You offered Thursday, where she was taking Tuesday and Wednesday. Common sense dictates that last minute time off from work needs to be reasonable, as it can affect employment.

Maybe she's not feeling connected as a family/couple, at the same time, it's not for you to read minds nor for you to cure inner turmoil.

[note: I haven't read your other thread that I see mentioned on this thread]