I won't say I approve of you giving a person hints on cutting deeper. That is careless and reckless. You hold another person's life in your hand. What would you have thought if she did and she died? Self-Harm is never right. But I understand the need to cut. I am a cutter. But I do my best not to encourage others to cut. It's dangerous and habit forming and although there are times I need it I would never encourage others to do it.

I think it may be best if you and she kept some distance. This is a toxic relationship at least from your part, based on what you said. Are you seeing a Counselor/Psychiatrist? If you aren't you need to go back. You need professional help and you need it now.

I am willing to talk to you if you like. Feel free to PM me and we can talk or we can do a Private Chat.

Amanda