Maybe all of this with her is because I wasn't very supportive of this relationship when I found out about it.I was concerned that maybe she was being played,that maybe he wasn't who he was claiming to be,maybe he didn't have as much money as he said,asked her if she's ever watched catfish,etc.I questioned all the "great" things she said about him and when some things just didn't add up I tried to encourage her to end the relationship.I was even more concerned when she told me they were going to meet somewhere and told her what I thought,how dangerous it was.When she told me they clicked,they really liked each other and then they were getting married I told her I was happy for her,and excited for her.(that's not how I really feel though to be honest.I think she's making a huge mistake,it's all happening too fast,but I wouldn't tell her that).

So you would think she would have wanted me to meet him right away to prove I was wrong about all my questions and doubts.