Today instead of being hurt for not being asked to be in the wedding I am very concerned about her.All I hear from her is how great this guy is,how happy she is,but of course he's always right there beside her when she says all this stuff.I haven't seen her face to face since he got here and have not got to talk to her without him being around.It makes me worry about all the what if's I had before she met him in person.What if this 100% change in her is because he's very controlling?

What if some of my questions and doubts about him are true and that's the reason she doesn't want me to meet him?She was all for me meeting him until he actually got here.What if he's not that great guy and I was right?

If she's upset because I wasn't supportive of the relationship,well she should be able to understand it was coming from a place of concern for her and not out of malice.

IDK,I'm just confused by all of it.Maybe I should just let all of this go for now and let it all play out however it's going to.Maybe I should attend the wedding and just wish her the best and keep my fingers crossed that things will be good for her.Or maybe I will tell her I would like to get together with her,just me and her and talk,find out what's really going on.Not sure which yet.

Thanks for all the replies here.