Well, I can't answer that because we have mutual respect for each other. I couldn't really give an answer on a "what if" scenario that I have no experience in.

As an aside, MrStranger, my answer to your other post still stands. This experience with your home life, while really horrible, is solidifying your thoughts of what you MUST do to make yourself happy. And it will happen, I'm sure of that. I hope it happens sooner rather than later for you. You have my very best wishes on that.