Is it too much to ask, to use myself to cope with kids of the system? Kind words of affirmations if those are trauma children that want to si. Find safe things with mysefl and kids of the system to do adult coloring games singing etc? Lastly, a safe space inside is usually a good idea when life has you so busy. A person on the external world as speaking sentences might help a switch back into the world of adulthood. I know these things at certain switches can be really extreme so do what you can to appear normal.