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Apr 27, 2017, 05:16 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: USA
Posts: 10,966
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he said that i hate his parents. He told me that he hopes i would be at least okay when he comes to attend his parents' funeral.
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These comments are very hurtful and inappropriate. I'm sorry that you had to hear them.  They make me wonder whether he prepared to do as sophiesmom suggests.
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His mother always tells him in front of me " after marriage, you don't spend time with us anymore...you don't sit next to me anymore".
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It appears that she is not above laying guilt on him to get him to do as she wishes.
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but he needs to take care of his responsibilties as well
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His first responsibility, in my view, is to you. It might be helpful though to get an understanding of exactly what he sees his responsibilities to be.
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