I believe two people can expereince real & true love
it should be comforting and enriching
starting with a foundation of a mature relationship
two people need to have stability - mind and spirit
Inner strenght
Handle responsilbilites, not withdrawing from one another during difficult times
real love requires honesty & respect
realistic expectations
A balance of dependance and independance
Able to rely on comfort and support.
I'm sure there is alot more that can be added I just haven't
got there yet.. this is all I can offer in opinion