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Old Apr 28, 2017, 01:22 AM
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Originally Posted by retro_chic View Post
Thank you!

My T and I actually talked about this a little bit last session. I was saying how I hold back in relationships because I think the other person is just going to leave eventually anyway. T said that I'm basically surviving on half a relationship which fulfills some needs but doesn't completely nourish me. Because of this I don't really feel that close with any of my friends and T said that I do the same with her. In terms of actually doing something about though I'm really stuck.
Have you ever told your t "I feel stuck. I don't know what to focus on in therapy"? I have with other therapists and tried to say it with kashi today. Just wondering if you have with your t and how she responds? Kashi had a reply but it's weird that I can't remember his exact words. I just saw him tonight
Thanks for this!
retro_chic