About a month ago I made a post regarding backstabbing. Admin removed it. They were very gracious and even asked me to repost without using any names. I have been so fortunate in these rooms. I have been welcomed with smiles and love, shoulders to cry on and wonderful advise. There is also the times when members have felt attacked! But thinking twice these
members have realized that sometimes meds are not good or people are having bad days and so moods have been forgiven. (repeat offenders excluded) If you find that members are speaking badly of you behind your back, you know the only cure is to report to Admin and send them the chat log. It is very unfortunate when this happens! And I can understand the hurt it can cause and lost of trust. It is hard to imagine that members that are so helpful would be cruel,. it is also possible some conversations are caught in the middle and misunderstood. But if you feel this has happened, nothing is to be gained by advertising names! That makes you as small as the ones who supposedly backstab. If I could I would mention the names of the members that have helped me so very much. Not only will that upset Admin. But I dont think the postings can be that long. As I said in the previously removed post, we all have problems. BUT we have a great group! Helpful, caring and available whenever needed. That is the most important I think.