I wrestle with that myself. Life is OK for me as of now. My basic needs are met and there are no crisis going on. What more should I ask for or why should I feel bad? I know that others have it worse, but being told that does not make me feel better. And I feel that what gets me down is very significant for me.

It's a surprise that someone else would say to me, "thank God I am not in your shoes". And I thought that they have had it really bad.

Things are alright for me now. But lots of times I worry that the rug will be pulled out from me. I thank the Lord a whole lot for making my life great and I know that I have some improvements that I want to see.

So I feel that your problems are legitimate.