No matter how many times you get pregnant, or how many counselors you drag your husband to, he is not going to change. You need to stop exposing your son to a man who doesn't care about him or his mother. There are no sweet, or persuasive words that you can utter that will turn him into who he is not.

You made a mistake marrying this man. Whoever advised you to seek a divorce gave you good advice. The longer you stay with this man, the worse your life - and your son's life - is going to become.

Your husband doesn't "need to spend more time with his son" because that's not what will make his life feel satisfying to him. Stop feeling sorry for how he is dissatisfied with his job. He doesn't care what you are dissatisfied with. No one will ever give him a great job because he's a louse. That's all he's ever going to be.