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Like a couples session for a professional relationship..

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Hey Sunny,

Just like me and T! I'm sorry this is going so crappy. I imagine that this guy is pressing your buttons big time and in a perfect world you would have the time and energy to figure out why and work on the relationship, but it seems like you want closure on the divorce and don't want/need/have the time for this kind of relationship work and repair. So, I vote with the others--dump him and get someone who can work with you. Or, have a meeting with him once and for all and bring his e-mail and tell him how it makes you feel and ask him if he thinks he can communicate with you on a professional level. But that can open more doors than you need right now.

It's okay to put your needs first and take care of yourself.

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I hate this. I feel like such a loser that I cannot make this work.

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No nononononononononono. YOU are not a loser. HE is causing this. YOU are just refusing to absorb his crap. You probably remind him of his mother....
Gee, guy stuff!

I hope you can continue to take care of you and your girls. I think you're doing a fabulous job.

xoxoxoxoxo