Thank you Tomi,

You are so kind. Sadly at this point, I feel anything but awsome......as matter of fact, I feel like another bottom is being hit right now.....however I am learning from it & I have also noticed that my thoughts are working on future plans since the ones I had when I left Kentucky have been crushed (in more than one way)

I do find that our thoughts & beliefs are very similar . That makes what you say meaningful to me because I can relate to your words & the way you express what you are saying.

You are right.....we have to be able to take when we need & give when we can. When things settle down.......the give will be there I'm sure....it just feels so horrible when it isn't there to give.

Debbie