I was diagnosed about 5 years ago with BPD though I suspect I have had it for longer. I have done therapy, DBT, psychiatrist, medicine, etc. I go through cycles of okay periods and then periods of lashing out, irritability, distress etc. My husband is at the end of his rope. He thinks that is all me, that its all in my head, that I havent worked hard enough through therapy and medications. He doesnt like to hear criticism of his actions, triggers that lead to my outbursts. Im losing my husband, my family and I dont know what to do...what else can I try, how can i manage my emotions, how can I explain to people what I am going through. I need help as I feel I am sinking into a bad depression and not wanting to go on anymore...please help...