thanks Sky, Perna... it'll take me time to absorb what you said.. each gave me great insights and inspiration...

God, i'm still learning to communicate! Just now she asked if i could help get her car started.. batteries dead... so, that will give me a project, she's gonna update me on the cous/child abuse/se assault matter later too... and my 1/2 sis is coming with the new baby : )

so begins another day ... Peace All...