I'm 32 and I have been chatting to a guy who is 58. I don't want sex as I class myself as asexual.... I detest the thought of sex. But this guy is coming from England to see me in Scotland in a few weeks. He knows I don't want sex and is cool with it. But am I in over my head? I can't tell anyone in RL as they will think I'm ill when I don't think I am. I just dint know what to think at the moment. I'm quite nervous but at the same time very excited to see him.... any thoughts?