You described this feeling perfectly. Sigh. White hot irons is exactly when it feels like. My son isn't even old enough to drive but his friend's parents are. Oh my. Can you say, "Panic attack"? That's exactly what I had when he went to the amusement park with them.

As for the bra thing, I have an odd size because my back is very broad, but my cup is not very large. I find a lot of these odd size bras at TJMaxx. And affordable! I get the having the gift card thing...but just another though to add.

Be well--