Hello!

Recently I met a 30 years old woman, she is divorced and has a child.
A little bit background about her, she grew up with an abusive father, her mother is addicted to drugs. Her father left when she was four years old (she says he used to beat her and she hated being around him).
She has had dysfunctional relationships throughout the years.
She openly speaks with about her past, her father, her pains and sorrow... saying that it's not usual for her to open up to that level...
I feel strongly her being guarded, avoiding, flinching when I give a hug, so I'm very patient and attentive to her needs, trying to give her the necessary space, though my emotions and needs take over at times, wanting already to give her a huge hug and a kiss, but her being guarded doesn't allow me to...
I have known her for about one and a half months. I have emotions for her and the slow progress makes me doubt at times if I ever be able to build a meaningful relationship.

I would appreciate any comments, as I am emotionally involved, so any viewpoint from outside might shed some light.
Love & light.