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Old Apr 29, 2017, 11:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss Laura View Post
He is staying with me and a hotel. Hotel for 3 nights me for 4 nights. I'm 32 so I should really know better shouldn't I. I don't know if I can trust myself. I mean I get so easily influenced when I'm in these situations
That sounds REALLY dicey. I was in a moderately similar situation a number of years ago, to meeting at a hotel even, and people told me to be ready to kick him to the curb. But I was already pretty emotionally invested, and though I told them I would, would I really have? Short of a super creepy vibe, no, I probably wouldn't have. And that might have been hugely unwise. It ended up fine, but then again, sex was definitely on the table for us.

I'd asked myself at the time it I was going manic, and I told myself no. Looking back at the timeline of actions and events, I was. So… consider that may be the case.

I'm feeling hesitation on your part, and that's probably wise. If you loose him, so what, really? You've only been talking for a week. You really don't know him. (And I'm saying this from a perspective of fast moving events from my life that were still longer than that.)

It sounds like your intuition is trying to talk to you...