I feel the same way. I was very shy when younger so people singled me out in elementary school. I still feel that way. People will give you advice and say it is because of how YOU act, etc. and will tell you that you let people do that to you.

But WE don't know any other way to act, except being nice. You can't just tell someone to change how they act because that is how WE ACT! We just are too nice and don't know how to be mean to people.

When I do get mean with people I am then singled out as being crazy and I feel even more worthless.