well that's a tough morning. That's a lot of anger to deal with. My husband behaved similarly. I was afraid to not be there for him, because I was afraid he'd leave me, or that something bad would happen to him. Plus, I wanted my family to stay together. Friends told me to leave him. I felt so responsible for his feelings. Eventually I didn't care if he left me, and I started making healthy choices whether he participated or not. I guess your husband left this morning instead of continuing his angry outburst at home. It hurts and it's disappointing, and you have every right to be angry..yet you know his struggle. He can blame everyone else in your house for what happened, but only he can learn to manage his triggers and learn coping skills.
Things have improved greatly in my situation, but it still takes work. 15 years of marriage, and I feel like we're problem solving at a first year of marriage level.
I hope your day improves, and I hope you don't mind my input.