Per usual my mother refuses to respect my boundaries. I wrote to her via email to cease all contact with me but she can't help herself, since I've been her most consistent source of narcissistic supply. She tried to draw me back in, by demanding that I come over to her apartment to change her bedding, etc. for a mere $20 (money being the carrot she likes to dangle at me). I didn't respond. I just deleted the voicemail. She can harass my other two siblings now. I just won't respond anymore. When I was in college, I saw a counselor who was friends with my mother, who violated the law and her oath by telling my mother everything we talked about. I tried to get the counselor fired but failed. That is just one of many ways my narcissist mother has tried to derail my life.