wow, yeah, tulips is right i think. i think any of us would be happy to help support you emotionally in whichever decision you make.

maybe you should check out the statute of limitations on whichever sort of legal proceedings you are considering. If there is time, then maybe wait to choose. See your new T, talk to your attourney.. gather professional advice and opinions.

have you considered other means... like going to the regulating body and having his license revoked? (thereby taking away his ability to work as a T and his main income) Filing official complaints in forums other than the courts could be pretty effective.